I appeal to you on the basis of love. - Philemon 1:9
Alvan T. Fuller served in the Massachusetts House of Representatives and the U.S. House of Representatives. He was Lieutenant Governor of Massachusetts and then the Governor of the state. He spent about 15 years in public office, but he didn't cash a single paycheck. He believed he should serve the public out of love and devotion to his fellow citizens, and he didn't need any other motivation.
Paul was hoping for a similar sentiment from Philemon. He wanted Philemon to do what was right, not just what he was told to do. He was making his appeal as a friend, not an apostle. And Paul's greeting indicates that Philemon probably didn't need to be told to be gracious.
Philemon was an encouragement to Paul because he had a track record of boosting the morale of other believers. In a time and place when persecution against the church was commonplace, someone like Philemon was an extremely valuable member of the church. He was a prime example of biblical brotherly love.
Paul repaid Philemon by showing him respect as a brother in Christ. Paul was gracious in his appeal on behalf of Onesimus. By pleading out of love instead of exercising his authority as an apostle, Paul showed his trust that Philemon would do the right thing and accept his former slave as a brother. He also showed him respect by recognizing his rights as master of Onesimus rather than rashly employing him as his own partner in ministry. This tactful approach helped ensure that no disputes lingered between any of the involved parties.
Of course, Paul also showed immense love and grace to Onesimus. His treatment of this new believer was an incredible vote of confidence that prepared him for a lifetime of faithful service. Having the confidence of the Apostle Paul must have meant a great deal to Onesimus, and the recommendation he sent to Philemon did him the favor of restoring a damaged relationship. Paul's letter to Philemon is a case-study in establishing and maintaining harmony in the church.
What I have learnt in this passage
Paul approached Philemon assuming the best, a step we would be wise to follow. If you're planning on confronting a fellow believer, take a moment privately to list the positive things you know about the person. If you think only of the one problem you're addressing, you'll add unnecessary fear to the situation. There is likely ample reason to expect a favorable response, and you can dissolve apprehension by keeping that in mind. Let love rule, even in your confrontations.
posted by I love Jesus! ! ! @ Tuesday, May 29, 2007
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